sisterhood + community = #wlsalt

treeIt is hard to believe that a little over one year ago, the sawomenlead.com and #wlsalt hashtag came to life. Born from loose connections at the 2011 Women’s Leadership Institute, the seven of us realized the need for a community space to share our lives.

We are in awe of the community that now exists – beyond what we could have ever expected, hoped for, or imagined. As a community, we have supported, affirmed, lifted, and transformed each other through unexpected victories and equally painful losses in our personal and professional lives.

It is appropriate that we pause and reflect on who we are as women, leaders, partners, colleagues, and sisters during this time of introspection. Some of lessons for us over the past year: Be fearless. Lift as you lead. Listen. Vulnerability. Thumping. Impacts of toxic competition. Authenticity. Honesty. During a recent #wlsalt sisters conference call, it was honesty that prompted this blog post. Because we are in the middle of so many competing priorities, we struggled with our goals for sawomenled.com and the #wlsalt hashtag.

The question that plagued us: Where we go from here?

Our answer was a bit of a surprise.

It is no longer just ours to decide.

As members of the #wlsalt community, we need to hear your voices for this space, for this community which is no longer ours alone.

  • What are your hopes for the #wlsalt community, what does you want and need it to become?
  • What strengths do you bring as you support, affirm, lift and transform others lives?
  • How do you contribute to the #wlsalt community, what would you like to contribute in the future?
  • What #wlsalt role do you want to play?

Take your seat at the table. Speak. We are listening.

Mary Jo, Amber, Teri, Niki, Deb, Carolyn, and Julie

Playing Big: A Mini-Workshop with Tara Sophia Mohr

We are often asked by tweeter’s both outside and inside higher education to share the story of #WLSalt and Student Affairs Women Lead.  We received the question a few weeks ago from Tara Sophia Mohr, a nationally recognized author and speaker on women’s leadership.  In the conversation, Tara spoke of her appreciation for the #WLSalt community, our retweeting and our sharing of her stunning quotes and powerful writing.   Additionally, Tara extended an incredibly generous  offer to provide a workshop for us. We are thrilled to share this opportunity with you and we now invite you to spread the word!

~Amber, Julie, Deb, Teri, Niki, Carolyn & Mary Jo

Please join us…

#WLSalt in cooperation with NASPA’s Women in Student Affairs Knowledge Community proudly presents:

Playing Big: A Mini-Workshop with

Tara Sophia Mohr  

Tara Sophia Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership whose work helps women play bigger. As a coach and leadership trainer, Tara noticed a troubling phenomenon: brilliant women not seeing or believing in their capabilities.

In this special mini-workshop just for WLSALT, you will: uncover how to make your work more fulfilling for you, and learn simple tools and practices you can use to quiet self-doubt and fear, in order to live your unique path more fully.

Wednesday, February 29th noon-1:15pm pst, 1-2:15 mt, 2-3:15 cst, & 3-4:15 est

Attend live or listen to the recording if you can’t make it at the time of the call

Sign up HERE to attend live OR receive the recording by phone

About Tara:

Tara Sophia Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership and well-being. Her work helps women play bigger in their work and in their lives. With an MBA from Stanford University and her undergraduate degree in English literature from Yale, Tara takes a unique approach that blends inner work with practical skills training, and weaves together both intellectual rigor and intuitive wisdom.Tara is the creator of the global Playing Big leadership program for women, which has reached over 250 women around the world.

Her “10 Rules for Brilliant Women” have struck a chord with tens of thousands of women around the world. In 2010, Tara was honored as a Girl Champion by the Girl Effect organization, which supports girls’ education in the developing world. Tara is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and has been featured on Today, BigThink.com, CNN.com, USA Today, the International Business Times, Ode Magazine, Forbes, and numerous other media outlets. She is also a poet, and the author of Your Other Names and The Real Life: Poems for Wise Living. Visit www.taramohr.com to learn more.

Shining a Light

Special thanks to Lisa Endersby for this guest post.

I was taught that emotions are bad, wrong, entities that need to be controlled. Expressing and sharing my emotions makes me weak, vulnerable, too honest and too open. I was taught that leaders don’t cry. I must be strong, in charge and in control. Emotions are to be feared, to be reigned in and to be hidden.

I no longer see it that way.

This openness, this honesty, this raw vulnerability, is perhaps the single greatest expression of my strength.

  “It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.” Marianne Williamson

This light illuminates what I see as my darkest secrets, my deepest scars, my most obvious flaws. It accuses blames. It can be blinding. Who am I to turn away from this light? It is strength, not weakness, which gives me the courage to confront, to challenge and to share these emotions. How could it be weak to acknowledge, display and wrestle with the messy inner workings of my emotions?

Can you see your openness, your authenticity and, yes, your vulnerability, as your greatest strength?

Lisa Endersby, M.Ed., B.Sc. 
Student Experience Advisor, UOIT

SASA LEARN Online Community Facilitator

Board Member, Creative Programs of Ontario (CPO)

Director, University of Toronto Scarborough Alumni Association

Tweet Me: @lmendersby

Connect with me on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaendersby

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